Quote: One thing I'm still amazed at is how quickly NG wants to FORGET everything. He seems happiest when I can pretend none of this ever happened either...
Temporary coping mechanism--he can't handle the enormity of what happened, most especially because he did it.
My H does the same thing a lot. Then he'll crack at the oddest moments. (They all crack, eventually...) I've decided to allow myself to feel things--not necessarily let them run my life--and it's done wonders in helping me let go.
