Today was staff meeting at work. Those are still tough for me, seeing OW even in the same room w/H is tough. not as overwhelming as it used to be, though. So I guess that's progress. I don't speak to her, but she just has this "huffy" look/attitude about her.
One thing I wanted to post before I forget...this probably seems small to everyone else, but I felt like it was a significant indicator of H's progress in letting her go. Bob Seger has this song...don't even know what the title is, but the main theme is reflected in the words "living my life without you babe, is the hardest thing I'll ever do"....H used to always change to something else when that came, ALWAYS....said he didnt like that song. In the car this weekend, he CHOSE the CD with that on it; when the song came on, he didn't change it, he listened! like I said, it probably doesnt mean a thing to anybody else, but it feels huge to me, because I really see it as an indicator of where his minds at.
I stuck a card in his lunch today, got an email from him saying thanks, it was nice....I could use some input on things that have worked for others in rebuilding a great marriage after an affair.
