Cemar.

Come on man. Just because you are HD and wanting a change does not mean you do all the work.

Do you know what an investment is?

I have to tell you, for the initial work I did in my relationship, the return on investment has been phenomenal. I think I have gotten all of my expended energy back, and an excellent relationship with my wife to boot.

Cemar. Please go back and read my early posts. I sounded a lot like you then. I understand where you are coming from, but you just won't accept one simple fact; IT IS NOT ALL YOUR WIFE'S FAULT.

This is why you are still stuck. Do you think that your wife doesn't KNOW that you are SEETHING with ANGER against HER? Have you talked openly and honest with her yet?

-NOPkins-

I will ferret out an affair at any opportunity.

-An affair is the embodiment of entitlement, fueled by resentment and lack of respect.
-An infidel will remain unreachable so long as their sense of entitlement exceeds their ability to reason.