I have to chime in and agree with many of the people on this partifcular subject. It's not a good idea to try to "generalize" LD's/HD's...keep in mind that the majority of the people posting on this BB are HD....the LD's probably have their own support group :-) By the way...thanks to all the LD's who are posting on here too...you are being very helpful!
I am pretty confident that if my LDH were asked if he thought I was shouldering the bulk of emotional/intimate responsibility in our relationship that he'd say no...but that would be coming from his perspective.
I've definitely learned that although he thinks I'm darn near perfect as a wife for him...there are definitely things that I fall short on as well for him. The important thing to me is that both you and your LD partner want to work on the situation so you can meet somewhere in the middle.
I know you're just throwing the thought out there for feedback...so take mine for what it's worth as well :-)
