Well, it's helping me understand. It's a reality check to see if I'm nuts in my perception that I'm doing all the emotional work or if I'm accurate in my perceptions. This is what it FEELS like to me.
Please tell me exactly how I'm off the mark/on another planet? I'm not saying I'm not, but just tell me how? I'm so glad to have the opportunity to present my possibly misguided assumptions to an LD person to explain to me.