Women are as capable of being 'jerky' as men. Neither sex has any corner on the 'jerky' market.
Lillie's boyfriend does a lot of 'other' work. It is obvious that he feels that he is contributing to the relationship. Their miscommunication is classic. He tries to meet her needs in the only way he knows how, and she is trying to meet his needs with blow jobs( other ways too, this is just for example).
Neither one of them understand that the other is trying. He doesn't need blow jobs, she doesn't need gardening for sex.
Even if they are attempting communication regarding needs, one or both of them is not listening. In order to be effective in a relationship, communication needs to be two ways. One way communication is easily construed to be demands.
-NOPkins-
I will ferret out an affair at any opportunity.
-An affair is the embodiment of entitlement, fueled by resentment and lack of respect. -An infidel will remain unreachable so long as their sense of entitlement exceeds their ability to reason.
