Lillie said: --------------- ..... Geez, talk about having to do all the work. I still think LDs are lazy and want to be taken care of! (Incoming frying pans! ) ---------------
Okay. I have ignored this up until now.
This is a crock full to the brim and overflowing with crap.
I have not doubt that you feel you are doing all the work. I know I did. I also have absolutely no doubt that IF down the line, you manage to be in a more normal relationship, you will find that the effort to get there is closer to equal between partners than you can imagine right now.
From my personal experience, MrsNOP may be a lot of things, but LAZY has never entered the picture.
Having had more sexual encounters than most, I can tell you that some of the laziest sexual experiences I have had, have come from some of the most 'demanding' people.
Just because someone doesn't want to do what you want to do, does NOT make them lazy. This is illogical.
Unless you have hard proof, I have to simply dismiss your assertion.
Al the best, -NOPkins-
I will ferret out an affair at any opportunity.
-An affair is the embodiment of entitlement, fueled by resentment and lack of respect. -An infidel will remain unreachable so long as their sense of entitlement exceeds their ability to reason.
