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But I had to ask this:
Are you saying that you can get that special and unique feeling no matter what you are doing with him?


Yes and no, I'm saying that the feeling exists, independent of the activity...for me The most inventive, frequent, exciting sex ever is not what generates the feeling. Neither does growing the most spectacular vegetable garden (Ha! Not happening with this year's weather, unless we decide to grow rice. )) Or even a conversation about serious, meaningful stuff.

It's hard to explain. It's just how it works for me. I'll ask him just to be sure, but I think this is the way it works for my H too. I've asked him why he didn't become resentful and angry and think of me as a selfish, lazy b*tch when we were in our SSM. His response to that question makes me think this is the way it works for him too.

MPT