I have said this before, as the HD male, we have to put forth far more effort to improve the relationship then the LD women has to. My wife today is less then 5% of the women she once was (in terms of frequency). So, I as the HD male not only must become that wonderful guy that she had early in her relationship, but I must even go BEYOND anything that I ever was. In effect, it seems like us HD guys must become MORE then 100% of the man we once were, and in exchange, the LD women might become 20-30 % of the women she once was. She wants things from me that iI have NEVER given before, and in exchange, there might be SLIGHT improvement. Here are the tasks that each of us has to improve our marriage:
Her: Improve her desire for sex Him: Improve EVERYTHING else.
