I understand what you were saying lol, just was letting others know that its not impossible for guys to participate when not really "hard"
Years ago when H started having problems with ED I kept at him mostly with BJs and he would O even being soft. I never knew this was possible. I have learned alot since then. He got to a point where it was a BIG inconvenience for him to satisfy me physically and therefore avoided any and all physical contact, even hugs and kisses. I distinctly remember a time, about 3 months after my mom passed away, where I woke not long after going to sleep and was really missing her. I handle the initial crisis very well, am the type things seem to HIT me later. I came out into the other room where he was, you guessed it, watching TV and he asked me what was wrong. I babbled to him between sobs that I really missed my mom. He didn't say much, didn't even hug me. I found that very callas. There are alot of things like this that stick in my mind where I needed comfort and never got it.
Anyway, Mrs Preggers, hope you have that baby soon
