Quote: I am indeed focusing on ME and how I need to change. I know I'm the only one I can change. Believe me, I am NOT on his case about this. I know that would be counterproductive.
Great! I'm glad to hear that :-) I was just pointing out something that jumped out at me in your posts...having fallen into the trap of unconciously trying to change my hubby (even though I thought I was helping/encouraging) I know how easy it is to do...glad to hear you're working on you :-) Keep it up!
Quote: Carrie's guy said he had never had sex sober before. That's my bf. I think there are some unique circumstances surrounding LD and being newly sober.
You could have a point there! Alcohol can add so many dynamics such as lowered inhibitions...it's possible he may have to re-discover (or simply discover period) his own sexuality.
