All of the wonderful things my bf does for me-- singing with me, making me a cake for Rosh Hashana, taking care of the dog and cats, bringing me diet cokes, landscaping my yard, building me a pantry, checking the oil in my car and adding oil when it needs it-- all of these things are soooo sweet and so appreciated (he really is an 'acts of service' guy)...BUT these are things that he could legitimately do for others, too. Even a special, deep conversation is something he could share with someone else (friend, daughters, his mom)... Physical sexual intimacy is just for me, a unique way that we experience each other, something he doesn't do for or with anyone else, a type of intimacy that he doesn't share with anyone else. Do LDs really understand how unique and special sexual sharing is, or do they equate it with shopping together or working in the garden together?
