Good point, IHJ. That's what I read in Mrs.NOP's post about the "turning point" in their R. It was an enlightening moment for me as I have a tendency to see the world as "good vs. evil". And of course, my POV is always the good.

I've also noticed that several here who have experienced sexual "victories" in their M have soon thereafter posted that they still weren't satisfied. Being the mature group we are, I've concluded that we've graduated to wanting intimacy through sex, instead of just sex.

I wonder if the road to intimacy is found through having sex 3-4 times a day.