I want to chime in here on behalf of the LDs. LDs like Corri are definitely not in the category of "lazy" about the relationship. However, I think she is the exception. She is a "motivated LD". My W makes it seem like she is knocking herself out about the relationship, yet other than same vague generalizations about how she's 'working on it' when I ask what she is doing to make herself more "motivated" like Corri, she has little concrete evidence of anything she's actually done.
Hairdog (btw, Corri, I know you can defend yourself. I just wanted to soften her up a bit before you pummeled her.)
