Quote: He can't equate your needs with his because you constantly complete/fix his failings.
Come again? (Not literally...LOL!!... Hairdog, SIT. STAY... it's just too easy, it's beneath you!!)
Let me say I get what you are getting at, as he did tell me once that, other than occassional sex, he wasn't sure what I needed him for... but I do not get this:
Quote: You have to let him be the hero enough for him to be able to appreciate what you do for him.
You mean I get to be a lazy bum... er, I mean... damsal in distress? No hopping on my own horse and storming the castle before he gets home from work?
MADFROG...!!!! MADFROG!!! Did you hear that? You and I are going on STRIKE!! No more thinking for ourselves!!! No more fixing!!!! But we will be HAPPY STRIKERS!!!!!!!!!!!
Oh my god. Who'd have thunk it? ROFLOL!!! Whew. I like your thinking, NOP.... hmmmmmm......