Thanks Corri and honeypot. Using a vibrator!!! Phew... In my dreams... Perhaps when I am feeling very cheeky I'll buy her one. I did try touching her during LM a couple of weeks back but she told me not to and it didn't seem that easy to do anyway. What I was planning to do was to tell her that I would be happy to take her all the way on any day she likes if she initiates it but that Fridays should be when we do it my way. I came close to suggesting this but I have to get the timing right as you don't get a second chance of springing that as a surprise and I know that she is dead against more than once per week (at the moment). SD