Corri,
Have you ever thought about doing the KLA tapes? I have to admit that I am very intrigued by them. I think it could help situations such as ours, in which resentment plays a big part in the breakdown.

Also, I am curious as to what 'might have been' had the promo not come along when it did. It seemed that things were on a good track until stress derailed your H.

Oh and I hear you on the weekend getaway. I too am the keeper of the relationship and it bothers me a great deal somedays. Other days, I just accept it as I accept his other strengths and weaknesses.
Have a great time; I'm green with envy girl!

Honey, who'd kill for a decent massage about now..