Actually the main reason I don't talk about my SSM is that I don't want to embarrass my H. I haven't given my second sister details about my problems because I'm afraid she'd tell her HDH, though I did tell her I was p*ssed off that my H was hassling me about my weight because I knew she would say what she said which was "If my H wants to say anything to me about my weight, he better have his bags packed when he says it.". I talk freely about sexual issues that have more to do with just me or are more positive. For instance, I'll talk about "positions" or techniques that I enjoy.
Quote: There is a whole spectrum of sexuality and I fall somewhere on the medium high section.
LOL. Where did you get this info? Did you look on a chart and find your preferred frequency in the Medium High zone for women between 30 and 40?
I guess I would classify myself as Medium High too because I've known quite a few women with drives higher than mine. I once went on a camping trip with a few women one of whom was a true nymphomaniac. While the rest of us were setting up camp, she went up to the road and flagged down a car full of men she had never met before to join us at our fire. Within an hour she was in the tent with one of the men. The rest of us (luckily they were pretty nice guys) just sat around the fire totally embarrassed.
"Tell me, what is it you plan to do with your one wild and precious life?" - Mary Oliver
