Probably so. I am outgoing & don't think of myself as a prude. It isn't prudishness that would keep me from discussing sex & marriage in personal specifics, it would be my sense of the golden rule - I wouldn't want to discuss personal NOP stuff with a group of people who knew us, anymore than I would want NOP discussing ME with a group of people who knew me. Especially if it was a bitching session. And I would be giving off "let's not go there" vibes & responses in any group where spouse-bashing became the coffee klatch topic.