MrsNOPkins:

Like I said my examples are mostly family... and we are a very OPEN family. I do however have close friends that I have also had since grade school that I can talk to about anything and I do. Doesn't make either of us weird or otherwise...just different.

I have said in another post that LD women and LD men are two very very different critters...pardon the expression... women want different things in a relationship than men do..IMO. And again in my opinion women withhold sex as a tool to get their husbands to do what they want, when they want it. There are men on this message board who appear to be the exemplary husbands and they still can't get that physical connection with their wives.....

Both men and women have basic needs and lets face it one of them is sex...the degree is different but it is still there..... whether or not those needs are met shouldnt be based on whether you did the dishes or not.