Quote: I have heard women talk about this before, and many of the women I know actually say "reward him with sex". This is a big part of the LD problem, they see sex as a "reward".
I guess my circle of friends/acquaintances must be odd (probably so, I'm a strange bird myself), because I've never been in a conversation with other women that involved personal details regarding my husband, marriage or sex life. And that includes women friends I have known since grade school days.
I would think that anyone speaking about their spouse in public with that degree of disrepect and lack of care has more than sex f*cked up with their marriage. Then again, I am speaking from my own intensely private perspective.
I do think that continuing to paint LD people with tar brushes of biased interpretations of "what LD people think, what LD people's biggest problems are, or LD people are FITB with some other perjorative term" is an exercise in frustration.
LD people have a lower sex drive. That lower sex drive doesn't cause them to treat you like cr*p. Those of you being treated like cr*p in your relationship - that treatment is a result of two people not dealing with problems in a positive, goal-oriented way. It very well may be that a discrepancy in sexual desire is the fulcrum of disagreement, BUT it is how that disagreement is being handled that spirals into hell.
