I have heard women talk about this before, and many of the women I know actually say "reward him with sex". This is a big part of the LD problem, they see sex as a "reward". There seems to be a double standard here, I have been told many times on these boards that as the HD, I must seek to meet my wifes needs without expecting sex in return. Well if this is true, then the LD women must seek to give sex without any expectations in return.
