You are correct that was a HUGE generalization on my part and I realized it as soon as I sent it. My sincerest apologies to anyone I might have offended.
I think I have a probably unfair jaded opinion on my fellow wives who happen to be LD. I hear and sympathize with the tiredness of raising children, fulltime employment etc.... been there done that times 6. I just never used sex as a tool for anything. I have also heard the stories of both side male/female (at least within my family) and I agree it is a double edged sword.
All I see is a bunch of unhappy people pretending that everything is great when in fact it isn't.
Why cant two people who claim to love each other completely.... find that their emotional connection will become greater when sex is a integral factor in their lives. Not something that is bartered.
