Lack of sex in a relationship is not the problem (even though it may feel like it). It is a symptom of a bigger problem. It is about communicating and trusting and willing to be vulnerable with the person you are closest to, and trusting that they aren't going to drop you.
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I am not exactly sure I agree with you just yet. As you know I am the HDW... and I have a REALLY hard time understanding the LDW. A really good friend of mine is a LDW and she talks to me alot...wishing she could be more like me
To me JMO please dont get upset with me... it seems like LDW expect the WORLD from there men in return for a "little" sexuality. All women as a group do is b!tch about their husbands ( they don't help around the house, they aren't there for their children etc etc ) with the note that if their H's were more there for them in all those ways , they would be more willing to give them sex!!
SEX shouldn't be a bargaining tool in a marriage...it should be the one thing that is a constant. The one thing that through all the trials and tribulations of life and marriage that those two people can share and NOBODY can take away.
It just seems to me that women in general hold their sexuality over mens heads ..like it is a piece of candy..... ex... if you are a really good boy and you do everything I say and want today you MIGHT get a little sex from me tonight. How fair is that exactly?
I am sure I am stepping on many peoples toes and I am truly sorry . Like I said though this is JMO. But in defense of myself I have been surrounded by women more in my life than men and I have listened to many conversations between women where the context of most convo's regarding their husbands is about how they (the H's) need to be trained!!!! What the "F" is that? Trained , they are not dogs.... how would we as women feel if our men were saying things like that about us. Trained my ass!!!!
