I can't speak for your H. He's a guy, after all, and I'm not. I'm not speaking for all LDs, either. I'm just speaking from my own POV.
There are times when I see my H and I feel a 'flash' of desire... but this is the way I am built. I typically don't feel desire until things get going. EC fuels my passion, and passion fuels my desire. That's just me.
I have to go... having a discussion of Chaos Theory with a Quantum Physicist and a Logistics Philosopher, and a side-convo with a practicing Buddhist who speaks in mono-syllables. I'm thinking those discussions are going to be easier, somehow, than discussing HD/LD issues.
