Quote: I am really happy for you and your H. However, taking into account that I can't speak for all HD folk, that isn't what I call desire. What you described is definitely a passionate expression of love but it isn't sexual desire. Sexual desire is an aching longing, not a loving flow of generousity.
What could your H do that would make you ache and long to feel his body joined with yours?
Jesus, you guys. I did ache and long for his body to join mine last night after we got going. Is there an aching, longing present in me that I carry around with me? No. Hence, HD/LD.
If my physical/mental make-up must equal his for him to feel love, we may as well part company now. In absence of that, we work with what we've got... his experience and my experience may differ, the description of it may differ, but if the end result is everyone is happy... not necessarily how they envisioned being happy, but happy nonetheless...
