Corrie, I'm asking you to explain it to me. You said:
Quote: If this is truly how you see things, no wonder you aren't getting laid. Sex isn't the issue. Whether I like sex or not isn't the issue. Whether I can f*ck and swing from the chandliers isn't the issue. Whether I can allow him to use my body to get off because Paula Cole turned him on isn't the issue.
This is the second time (it was in another thread) you've told me I'm way off, but you still haven't told me exactly how I'm way off. I asked you then, too, when I said:
Quote: Please tell me exactly how I'm off the mark/on another planet? I'm not saying I'm not, but just tell me how? I'm so glad to have the opportunity to present my possibly misguided assumptions to an LD person to explain to me
and you didn't respond.
Would you please tell me where I am so wrong. I need to learn. Tell me precisely why I am not getting laid. Obviously, even though I've read all of Schnarch's books, SSM, and the Five Languages of Love, I'm still missing something very important.
What exactly did you want your H to say in answer to your "why?"
