I'm so glad to hear from you. I'm especially glad that you have put your wants on the table for Mr. NOP to consider. What drives me to distraction is that I don't even know what my more my W would want in our R. I feel that my desire has been kidnapped and there is no ransom note forthcoming. Many posters on this board would call themselves "Fixers". My W seems quite satisfied with the ways things currently are, and does not see anything to "fix." I admire you for coming here and saying that it's not only the HD partner who wants changes.
