Guess you better hustle now and pick up your place!!! Can't have him coming over to the results of your weekend of (well-deserved) sloth, now, can we?

This is a good opportunity to let him see the contrast between your warm, nurturing home and OW's craziness and neediness.

Remember - just keep your expectations low and your PMA high. Stick to the high road and don't bash the OW (let him do it, fine, but don't add your two cents. Be better than that). Validate him.

I wouldn't expect anything out of him tonight, but it IS a good opportunity to provide contrast, and it will stick with him, even if he seems oblivious at the time.

Ellie