The phone rang a little later and H spoke to D. I heard D asking if OW 2 was going to be there this weekend, don't know what the reply was.

I guess I will just have to be patient and see what H lets me in on. I will wait to be contacted, and when and if he does get in touch, I will DB like mad. Just visited the lightyourfire website, and came away with the idea that it is when your H feels good in your company (affirmation and validation) that H likes and loves you enough to hang around, AND do things for you in return! Got to work on that. It is not only the case that we love the other person, but that we love being in that person's company because they make us FEEL GOOD about ourselves! I can buy that.

I THOUGHT I was getting mixed signals from the lunch thingy. He was so keen to have lunch, there were still hints that OW 2 was around, yet hints that H was somehow on his own more....

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"The unexamined life is not worth living" - Socrates