Well -
let's just look at the positives, shall we?
1) he had lunch with you (on purpose) - obviously it wasn't about seeing dd, as you said, since he was going to have her soon. And if he just wanted to see her while he was in town on an errand, he could have just picked her up and taken him with on his errands. Or he could have just done his errand and not mentioned he was in town for the day. He obviously didn't have any serious message to give you, so I'm guessing he just wanted to see you

2) - Hope you managed to get your perfume on him - OW probably wouldn't like that! If you're really lucky, she'll figure out he had lunch with you and get mad at him - bad behavior on her part is always good for you.

3) - He complimented your appearance - aliens do NOT do this unless they are noticing how attractive you are

4) - He talked about himself, giving you lots of opportunities to use those WOA, right?

5) - He didn't ask about any possible inheritance as you were afraid he would.

All in all, sounds to me like he actually wanted to spend time with you - even though he may not even consciously realize that yet. If he had just wanted you to ferry dd, I'm guessing he would have spent a lot less time talking to YOU and more time talking to HER - right?

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Is very into "toys" although he uses them for his personal work. Needs to get a buzz from a new purchase every so often.




Depressed people use a lot of different things to try to alleviate the depression - affairs are one way, but the "high" from shopping is another.

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Opinionated and arrogant!





Was he always this way? Or is this another manifestation of the depression? My H definitely became more intolerant and irritable about people in general when he was depressed.

Sounds like you did well.

Ellie