Hello Trish and others

I just have time for a tiny update of sorts.

Trish, yes of course I have read Divorce Remedy. I've evidently been wallowing too much in my emotions lately for it to show?

Thanks for your kind thoughts too. I know once sis goes back I will feel the full force of the loss of our mother.

D had a dream yesterday - a "wonderful" dream where "you and Daddy were together, and all three of us were up in the hills, and Daddy could drive and we had a car and a tent and we went around camping, and then we went to this place with lots of water, even in the hotel, and everything was floating......"

I really do think we could have that if all parties wanted it. (Except the floating in water bit!)

And back to H's invite to have lunch together next week. I know he is wary of meeting my sis hence he won't come down this week. He knows what she thinks of him.

And a little voice is telling me he wants to find out about what my mother might have left me, so that maybe he can pay me less. Think I will have to come up with a figure that he needs to pay for D's maintenance, whatever my other circumstances are. I don't want to be jerked around on this issue for ever more.

Ok, here is a specific request. If H asks me straight out whether or what my mother has left me, how can I tell him it is none of his business without being rude and getting his back up? As far as I am concerned, it is none of his concern seeing as how we are legally separated. Some months ago he enquired how much her house fetched when it was sold, and I told him it was something I couldn't tell him, being my nother's private business.

Thanks.

Livnlearn

"The unexamined life is not worth living" - Socrates