I was glad that I caught your post and had a minute to send a reply. I know what it feels like, looking for a reply from someone, when you are just so beside yourself that you don't know which end is up.
What night is H supposed to be spending the night at your place?
I would love to do some serious brain storming prior to that about some as if's and 180's. I have made the mistake before of coming on too strong and I don't want you to do that. It needs to all be very purposeful and planned behind the scenes but to H it has to look casual and effortless otherwise it will not be perceived as genuine.
Also, refresh my memory, how long has H been gone? Did his OW #1 start before he left? Did he ever say the D word? If I knew the answers to these questions than I have forgotten, sorry.
I am hoping that you are already in bed there so I will check in tomorrow.
