It sounds like you are on the right track, LnL. Sometimes half the battle is just sorting all of this out and knowing what we are up against.
I don't think that I would be so sure that he is "working" on his relationships with his OW's. Sounds more like he is just falling in and out of them.
Hmm, well paid part time work. If you figure out a quick way to get rich let me know.
I don't think that I even mentioned on my thread that I got a job writing articles for a small local monthly publication. Each articles pays, get this, $35. That won't pay for my utilities or groceries or anything other than maybe a tank of gas, but its a start.