I sometimes visit a website that my H posts to and today he mentioned something he was doing last year, then said it was at a time when his marriage was breaking up, so his mind wasn't on it.
I love that expression - his M was breaking up! Not, I left my wife because I was f***ing her friend!
Even now he sees it as something that happened to him!
This is the second time recently he has mentioned the end of his M on a public website. It doesn't bode well, does it?
Livnlearn
"The unexamined life is not worth living" - Socrates