What other goals can you set for yourself? What interesting new activities can you get involved with (something H would be sorry to miss out on?). What ways can you start thinking outside the box and stretch your horizons? What 180s can you do that might intrigue H? Are you due for a makeover? Makeup, hair, clothes, house?
We have a TV show called What Not To Wear (borrowed from a British show of the same name). I was watching it the other day and there was this woman on it who was SO stuck in her rut, it was amazing! On the show, they take all the yucky clothes out of someone's closet and get rid of them, give them some lessons on how they OUGHT to dress, then send them out shopping with money to buy new clothes.
This woman the other night had nothing but black, gray and navy in her closet - no color. And all her suits were baggy and too large, even though she was a tall blonde with a good figure. She practically kicked and screamed through every step - boy, change was SO hard for her - but she looked stunning in the end.
I guess this struck a chord with me because I tend to get stuck in ruts, don't really enjoy shopping, and spent way too much of my life not trying new things. So get out there and try some new things!
