I have just had another stinker of a letter from my H, about money.
H wants to pay less, while frankly I think what he pays now is fair under the circumstances, as he plans to be away a lot this coming year, and I have full responsibilty for D. This CONSTANT barrage of pressure and hassle from H is geting me down and I waste a lot of time being depressed and feeling hounded. I find it HARD to come up with words of affirmation for H paying what he does, he thinks of it as him HELPING us, while I see it as his responsiblity for starting a family, then abandoning it and being FREE with a "singles" lifestyle. He wants me to THANK him *AND* ACCEPT LESS.
And as I indicated in a previous mail when I asked him about arrangements for D, he now wants D to miss one for her classes in order to go up to his place this weekend. Last week he told me to enrol her....
How do I word a letter to H telling him that I think the present arrangement is fair, and I don't wish to renegotiate anything? All along he has assumed his liablilty would decrease automatiaclly. By the way, his latest emails have been all about how he is doing so much better on the financial front! I don't get it.
Livnlearn
"The unexamined life is not worth living" - Socrates
