I've been excited about your new line of thinking, and love the new name. Glad to see you decided to go back to basics and look for a different perspective.
So, you know me... have to call something out there that is a resentment trap.
Quote: He also mentions taking D out to lunch and not inviting me, which leads me to believe he is coming down to the city with OW 2. He has been hounding me for a lunch date, and now he has completely dropped it.
LNL, do you see the assumption you're making here?
Could it be possible that the reason he's dropped including you is because of the negative communications he's had with you over the past few days? Maybe he finds this as tiring as you do?
I know there are times when I want to ask Mr. Wonderful to do something with me and the girls on weekends that I have them. I'm a lot less inclined to make the offer if he's moody and sullen than if he's acting as if he's happy. It doesn't mean that I don't want to do it anymore, it's just that I think his frame of mind is something I just don't want to deal with until it passes.
Just my .02 worth. Back to you, Ellie and Soup...
Betsey
"There are only 2 ways to live your life. One is as though nothing is a miracle. The other is as though everything is a miracle."
Betsey 
