Sometimes when people are at their most unlovable, they need it the most. It has been my experience that kids act out when they need attention/love. Even "bad" attention is better than none.
That theory applies to adults, too. Way to go, Lnl! For stepping back and seeing what was really there!
When you can't make a decision because you are torn between your heart and your head, listen to the half with the brain.
