MM, When I was moved from the labor room to the delivery room during S10's birth, somehow my H started arguing with one of the nurses. Seems she directed him to stand in a certain spot and he did not like this, so he starts in with her. There's all this commotion, and I finally scream at him, " H, you ( fill in curse), this is not about YOU!" I tuned him out for the rest of the delivery, and thanks to you, I can now think of "Hank" who would have held my hand and offered words of endearment and encouragement.
IHJ--- who hopes Honey's H behaves better than this