NO WAY was he trying to initiate or even WILLING to admit he was horny. He was irritated with me and didn't want me to even touch him, let alone ML to me.
That may sound whiny, but it didn't bother me in the least. I am so used to his personality quirks that, like I said, I just treated him like the village idiot (benignly ignoring his nonsensical behavior) and went to sleep. I did tell him that I loved him and wished him sweet dreams.
He is very attached to his routine. He doesn't like it interrupted. Too bad. I came home later than usual last night but I in no way feel responsible for his ability to fall asleep or not.
He knows he was being a nincompoop and that's enough for me.
I just find it funny that tonight he will say how he should have just had sex last night and been able to rest easy. I will then ask why he didn't do just that and he will say either "I don't know" or "I was too worked up to even want to" or something else that just boggles my mind.
I mean, if you know that ML will help you relax and fall asleep why not just do it? Why make it into a mind f*ck where you torture yourself and toss and turn and be rude to your spouse?
It's almost as if he wants to punish himself or me or both and revel in his irritation!
Oh well, not gonna dwell on it anymore. I know him inside and out and am fully expecting some labor-inducing action tonight, if his past behavior is any indication to future antics.