HP said: --------------- This was the 3rd day in a row that we have had sex. So the whole "desire during preg" thing is both true and false. ---------------
So, he is storing up for the looming 6 week long winter :-)
I am very happy for you HP.
I can barely stand the wait for the baby pics!
All the best, -NOPkins-
I will ferret out an affair at any opportunity.
-An affair is the embodiment of entitlement, fueled by resentment and lack of respect. -An infidel will remain unreachable so long as their sense of entitlement exceeds their ability to reason.
NOP, I was thinkin a 3 week or 4 week long winter....heh heh.
But, yes, I do think he is starting to realize that it could be anyday now and that the store will be closed for remodeling for quite some time. He is so used to having whatever he wants, whenever he wants it, that I wonder how it will go!
With our other kids, he was still SO deep in the religious hangups that he couldn't look forward to or enjoy our "reunion". This time I think he will be anxious and happy about it.
What a great thing to look forward to...a more happy and healthy (in his mind) H, getting horny for me!
Now I just need to go into labor before this good mood evaporates. LOL
HP, So glad to see you had a marathon weekend. Your grin is sooo big it chased away the rain here I got some twice yesterday so I too am in a much better mood than I was at the end of last week. Yeah, I'm sure he's realized winter is near and he's burying his nuts as much as he can while he can (sorry, couldn't resist) The 'remodeling' time is a great time to reconnect non-sexually, provided you can find time when you aren't running around dealing with the new baby, the other kids demanding equal time (funny how a new baby makes the others suddenly become so needy, eh?), or catching up on sleep. Here's hoping for a speedy delivery and before he decides he's packed enough nuts to hold him over. Can't wait for you to tell us he's getting horny for you!
hey, I just wanted to say "good luck" and all that on your pending arrival.
and wow! what a weekend! LOL!
I have to say, though, that "pg" thing...its just another excuse to not do what they already didn't want to do in the first place. I (hd) thought my W was just as sexy as ever, throughout her pg, so I don't "get" those bug-a-boos. She, on the other hand, used it as an excuse to cut me off completely, once and fer all. She didn't want it before; now, she didn't have to at all. heck, we didn't do it from before she got pg, (figure that one out ), till the kid was around 10 months old. and now, its "I'm a mommy; I'm toooooo tired". ok. 1 kid; sahm (stay-at-home-mom).
I just can't imagine your energy level, having kids already, being so very PG, and yet, you STILL want it. good heavens!! and good for you!
Oh it has nothin to do with energy! I am just as tired and worn out and kid-ded out as the next sahm.
But like any self respecting HD person I'd never let that get in the way of SEX!
Nopkins described me to a tee in another post..no matter what my life circumstances were, I usually wanted sex. I might not want other things but sex was not the thing that I was wanting to cut out.
FWIW, this is our 7th pg, and really the only one where she's been willing (not wanting, just willing for the most part). The previous ones, her already low desire went to no desire. My favorite line is whenever she thought she might be pregnant (including a number of false alarms), it was an immediate "you're cut off until I get a pg test and know fer sure". What's up with that? If she is pg, then there's nuttin to worry about (see,there's the nuts again HP, LOL). If she's not, then it ain't any different than the week before she thought she was....
HP, when the baby comes, make sure you and H schedule plenty of down time for yourselves. Don't forget, you both will need it (as if I had to tell you that).
Quote: FWIW, this is our 7th pg, and really the only one where she's been willing (not wanting, just willing for the most part). The previous ones, her already low desire went to no desire. My favorite line is whenever she thought she might be pregnant (including a number of false alarms), it was an immediate "you're cut off until I get a pg test and know fer sure". What's up with that? If she is pg, then there's nuttin to worry about (see,there's the nuts again HP, LOL). If she's not, then it ain't any different than the week before she thought she was....
good heavens! I can't imagine 7. (I can't imaging having sex that many times, either. ) It took us 5 years to get the one. and the only "sex" involved just me...and a dixie cup.
Well, one miscarried almost half way through the pg, so we have 5 kids and another one on the way. Sorry to hear about your sich. Worst it got for me was an average of 1-2x per mo. Sometimes it would be once in 2 mos, but never further apart than that. Lots of times it was mercy sex though, or at least that is what it felt like.
Shades are coming in mighty handy right now.
(sorry, couldn't resist)
), till the kid was around 10 months old. and now, its "I'm a mommy; I'm toooooo tired". ok. 1 kid; sahm (stay-at-home-mom).