H initiated in the middle of the night last night.
This was the 3rd day in a row that we have had sex. So the whole "desire during preg" thing is both true and false. I have no doubt his desire goes down but there is more to the story than that. When he is horny he manages to put all of that aside. Then he wears himself out and finds that he can't get back into Sex Mode. This was his M.O. before I was pregnant so I feel confident that the pregnancy dynamics have little to do with it.
I have written before that he is very cyclical. He will want sex 3, 4 or 10 days in a row and then nothing for a week. I would probably be okay with that setup except that he starts to act weird (truthfully I am sure BOTH of us are acting weird) during the week off. It is odd to be that close, physically and otherwise, with a person for several days or weeks in a row and then...poof...nothing.
And he will NOT let me get close on the off cycle. I continue to try and he continues to let me know that he needs his space.
at any rate, the weekend was great! I was hoping all this sex would put me in labor but no such luck. I have so much energy. Isn't it crazy how sex makes HD people energetic and feel as if they can conquer the world?
So this weekend was excellent from a frequency standpoint, but it did make me remember how things used to be and what exactly the problems were back then. (one of my gripes was the Sexathon-followed-by-drought dynamic..)
Oh well we had a wonderful weekend and I am proud that my H tried to overcome his hangups and just go with what he was feeling. I hope it continues!
