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I wanted help with dealing with an inhibited spouse with little creativity and who has prudish tendencies that tend to squash my own enjoyment of ML with him.




Hmm, I can relate to this.

She has told me that she isn't very creative in coming up with things, but everytime I have tried to suggest or inspire her (I have brought home a bunch of books with fun sexy suggestions guarentted to drive me wild) but she either never reads them, reads them, never to follow through, or tells me it isn't fun because it feels scripted, or the classic, that's just not me.