No I was here before getting pg; but frequency was not my main complaint or what I was seeking help/support with.
I wanted help with dealing with an inhibited spouse with little creativity and who has prudish tendencies that tend to squash my own enjoyment of ML with him.
I'm hoping that as time goes by we will continue to progress... I think we are much more relaxed about the topic but I don't know if he is willing to work through his fear of actually DOING some of the things we talk about. For him, the talking is enough--for me, it isn't.
