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Otherwise he will try to rewrite history every single time!


It's interesting... when we first went to the C my bf told him that he had recently (four months before) stopped drinking after many years. The C asked, How was your sex life with Lil before you stopped drinking? BF said it was fine. I had to chime in and say, No, you're not remembering it the way it was...

Of course, he was drunk in the evenings 80 percent of the time, so that's HIS excuse.

I actually do have quite a bit of hope these days. Last night I told him I wanted to switch to the Scnarch-y C and he was perfectly fine with that. I do believe he wants this to improve, AND I do believe he has it in him.

It helps so much to share this info with others who really understand...