If that happened to me in the pissy mood I was in last night, I probably would have said something to the effect of "Fine, why don't you invite them all to sleep in our bed too", very sarcastically of course! Maybe it is just another LD tactic to avoid sex? W does it too to some degree, although not as much as she used to.

Good news on the ctx! Praying for a quick delivery and healthy baby for you!