damn sometimes I want to grab these guys and go 'WAKE UP YOU GOT IT GOOD!!!'
one time my W and I were at a bar with a few friends, I go to get us drinks and when I came back there was a guy obviously hitting on her. I just stood back and watched, my friends couldnt belive that I would just stand there, I could see her, she could see me and we were both smiling. The guy jusk kept going with his lines, I dont ever think he knew why I was smiling.
He finally gave up, I walked over to her and she never asked why I didn't come to her rescue. We stil laugh about that night. You know you have a good relationship when you trust each other, know each other, and that night I think we both felt pretty lucky. Why should I be embarrased, worried, or feel a threat from any of that. every now and again I will see some guy eyes drop down to 'check out' my wife and I think that I am pretty lucky.
