LOLOLOL!!!!!!! Just joking. Don't you know that you never tell a preg woman the truth!?!
Look I know his desire has dropped down; I do have eyes and know exactly what I look like these days. In addition to that, he is very freaked out about the proximity of our latest addition to his penis. I understand all these things.
What I do NOT understand is him making sexy promises and not following through on them. That just seems cruel. Or to not offer me anything...to just say, Sorry you're not very desirable right now. Huh? I would never do that to him, in any situation, sexual or not.
He is sexually selfish. He has admitted that but I don't see a whole lot of effort being expended towards moving past it. At least not at the present.
And I will save you all the time of writing back to me, by saying it to myself: Honey this aint the time to fry that fish! Just concentrate on the baby's arrival and H will come back in due time..