Journey,
I have NO expectations that this night will end in sex. How's that for low?!

But I suppose I did think that it would still be a "date" and focused on romance and US being together, alone. He changed everything and it will not have a date quality any longer, at least for me.
So I guess I will wear whatever I feel like and let the chips fall where they may. I don't even know why I am worrying about it. What I wear or do has absolutely no bearing on my H.
I should probably delete this entire thread.
I believe I just answered my own question! Wear what I feel like and go with no expectations at all. Obviously he is not seeing me as a wife right now, let alone a lover, and is looking for a way to 'pretend' to be living his duty as a husband while completely copping out and giving me from 3-6 and calling it a date.

See there. I told you I was emotional.

I really wish he would not have done this. Planning a date 5 days before my due date when I have been asking and begging for his time all year just really is not that smart. Then to change it at the last minute so it is not really a date and we get to come home and attend to all the childcare duties is just beyond ridiculous.

I think I just need a good cry......or a stiff drink, lol.

Plus, D2 got a hold of some scissors and cut gobs of her hair off a little while ago.

Sigh!